Sometimes you keep choosing men who don’t choose you because part of you is still trying to prove you were worth choosing in the first place. That is hard to admit. Because on the outside, you may tell yourself, “I just really liked him.” But deep down ...
Being rejected can make you question your beauty, your value, your personality, your body, your timing, and your whole heart. It can make you look at yourself and wonder what was missing. Was I too much? Was I not enough? Did I care too deeply? Did I say ...
Some pain starts before you have words for it. For me, father wound healing has not been a straight road. It has been slow, deep, and emotional. It has also forced me to look at the little girl inside me and tell her the truth. She was not hard to ...
For a long time, I think I confused being loved with being good enough. If I could explain myself the right way, maybe someone would understand me. If I could be helpful enough, maybe they would stay. If I could stay calm, quiet, strong, easy, or useful, ...
https://youtube.com/shorts/d4OK0OtFn58?si=s8TC90Eg3nnOLlpK I used to think love had to feel intense to be real. If I was anxious, chasing, proving, overthinking, waiting, crying, hoping, or trying to make someone choose me, part of me thought that m ...
Confidence does not always start with a big speech. Sometimes confidence starts quietly. It starts when you say, “I’m going to drink more water today,” and you actually do it. It starts when you say, “I’m going to take a short walk,” and even if you on ...
There is a certain kind of pain that comes when someone doesn’t choose you. It is not just disappointment. It can feel deeper than that. It can feel like your whole body starts asking questions your mouth is too tired to say out loud. Why wasn’t I eno ...
