You should not have to beg someone to love you. Not for a text back. Not for honesty. Not for consistency. Not for basic respect. Not to feel like you matter. And I know that can hurt to admit. Especially when your heart wanted that person to finally c ...
One of the hardest things to let go of is not always the person. Sometimes it is the hope. The hope that one day he will finally understand. The hope that one day he will show up. The hope that one day he will stop being inconsistent. The hope that one da ...
Sometimes healing looks like crying in the middle of the day because something old got triggered. Sometimes it looks like being proud of yourself one minute, then doubting everything the next. Sometimes it looks like taking one step forward, then won ...
Sometimes healing does not feel like a big, dramatic moment. Sometimes healing looks quiet. It looks like not checking your phone as much. It looks like not blaming yourself for how someone treated you. It looks like finally admitting that love should n ...
Sometimes you are not attached to the man. You are attached to the hope. The hope that one day he will finally see your heart. The hope that one day he will finally choose you. The hope that one day he will stop being hot and cold and become the man you ...
Learning how to stop seeking validation from someone who hurt you happens slowly. It is not a switch you flip one day. It is a practice. It is choosing yourself again and again, especially on the days when you still wish they would choose you. 1. Tell You ...
Feeling ashamed of where you are in life can make it hard to move forward. You may look around and see people with apartments, careers, relationships, money, children, confidence, or lives that seem more settled than yours. Then you look at your own life ...
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Sometimes the hardest part of letting go is not the person. It is the checking. Checking if he watched your story. Checking if he is online. Checking if he liked something. Checking if he posted. Checking if he misses you. Checking if there is still som ...
Sometimes you keep choosing men who don’t choose you because part of you is still trying to prove you were worth choosing in the first place. That is hard to admit. Because on the outside, you may tell yourself, “I just really liked him.” But deep down ...
